WADANNAN ABUBUWAN SU KE KASHE MATANMU NA HAUSAWA

Wasu abubuwa da ke kashe matanmu na Hausawa

Na dade ina irin wannan nazarin game da rayuwar matan qasar hausa akan menene dalilin da yasa suke saurin tsufa da zaran an yi musu aure sun je gidan miji...

Zaka ga yarinya qarama wacce aka haifeta a gabanka da zaran ta isa aure an kaita d'akin miji shekara daya kawai zuwa biyu bayan ta haihu idan ka ganta abin zai baka tsoro da mamaki domin zaka ganta duk ta tsufa ta yank'wane kamar wata Anty...

Abin da yake bani mamaki shine kafin 'yan matan suyi aure sun iya kama jikinsu da daukar wanka da kwalliya... Watakila wannan shine dalilin da yasa samari suka yi mata chah a lokacin tana gidansu... Amma da zaran ta shiga d'akin miji shikenan wannan kama jikin da wannan wankan da kwalliya duka sun zama tarihi...

Musamman idan ta samu juna biyu ko kuma ta haihu a wannan lokacin wata matar ko abincin da ta dafa wani namijin mai tsantsami ba zai iya ci ba balle har yayi hira ko hada shimfida da ita ba... Kuma a irin wannan yanayin ba kowane namiji bane zai iya zama da irin wadannan matan ba dole sai dai cikin biyu ayi daya ko dai ya saketa ko kuma ya qaro aure...

Da yawa matanmu haka suke basu damu da ado da gyaran jikinsu ba kamar yadda suke a lokacin suna 'yan mata... Dalilin kenan da yasa mazajensu ke gudunsu suna bin' yan matan waje ko karuwai... Domin matansu basu yi musu irin wannan kwalliyar da suke gani a wajen 'yan matan waje...

Kullum zaka tarar da mace da d'aurin kirji kai a chukurkud'e ya tsufa ba kitso ba sarta... Yadda take a hargitse haka 'ya'yanta da d'akinta da gidanta suke babu kulawa... Idan mijin yayi magana domin ta gyara sai tace:-

"Kawai dai Baban wane ka gaji da ni ne duk shi yasa kake ta yimin irin wannan tsangwamar... To ya kake son nayi ni inji ce da zanyi ta aiki ba na gajiya? Jiya fa nayi wanka kuma na share d'akin nan sannan nayi wa yaran nan wanka"...

Babu yadda mijin ya iya dole sai dai yayi hakuri ya daina gayyato abokansa gidan dan kada su fahimci matsalar matarsa ko kuma ya fara tunanin sakinta ko qara aure...

Abin da zai baka mamaki shine irin wadannan qazamen matan idan suka tashi fita unguwa wallahi idan ka gansu ba zaka iya ganesu ba... Wanka suke dauka ayi kitso da k'unshi da gyaran jiki kamar zata gasar kyawawa... Har qananen 'ya' yansu sun ganesu da zaren sun yi kwalliya to unguwa za'a tafi sai ka ga yaran sun fara binsu suna yi musu kuka dan kada iyayen su tafi su barsu a gida...

Idan kuma aka yi rashin sa'a mazajen suka gaji suka sakesu idan suka fara zawarci sai kuma kaga sun fara wanka da kwalliya... Wasu mazajen kuma zasu daukesu a rashin sani sai anyi auren kuma hali ya bayyana a sake sakinsu... To haka za'ayi tayi har ma qarshe su rasa wanda zai auresu...

Wallahi mata wannan shine babbar matsalarku shi yasa kuke tsufa tun da qananun shekarunku... Kuma shi yasa mazajenku ke gudunku ko aurenku ya mutu... Ku lura da kyau ku ga yadda turawa, larabawa, indiyawa da qabilunmu wadanda muke zaune qasa daya ku gani haka suke yi?

To dan Allah mata a daure a dinga wanka da kwalliya da tsafta domin ba kowane namiji bane zai iya zama da qazamar mace irin wannan ba... Kamar yadda kuke gyara jikinku kafin aure dan samari su gani su yaba haka yakamata ku gyara jikinku a gidajen mazajenku domin aurenku yayi lasting kuma ku zauna lafiya ... Jikin mata ba irin na maza bane dole sai da gyarawa...

Idan kunne yaji.......